"Ain't Nobody"

I saw a post by one of my Facebook friends about how being in love was so cool. He talked about how holding the person was more fulfilling sometimes than the sex. How having someone there to talk to joke with and pray with is so great. I was really move by this young mans post because he focused on the majors and most people focus on the minors . The thought of laying in your loved ones arms having pillow talk all through the night off and on. Laughing with him with your inside jokes when you are in together or out  in public. Laying on the couch together wrapped into each other watching a movie, where you find your self asking a lot of questions as if he has seen the movie before. Having someone you can actually call when you have a flat tire or car trouble and don't know what to do or who to call while you are scrolling down your phone list of friends. Having someone to call first when something great or bad happens instead of sharing the news with people who could care less. 

  Having someone who wants to come by just to see you even if they are so tired from work they just fall asleep on the couch lol. 

   Those are the things that are sweet about love to me. However, nowadays everyone is looking for love because they are ready to have all this crazy sex with the man with the biggest.......that they have daydreamed about forever.They are looking for the tallest man with the most money and the nicest car. A guy that will buy them nice things to flaunt in front of their friends and send them flowers to show the whole world. Someone who is perfect, who probably never passes gas unexpectedly or burps out loud or ever has funky breathe, lol.

  That's the idea of love most people have. What I'm saying is I realize love will be great but I know it will not be perfect because no one is perfect but God. So ladies if you meet a good man who has minor flaws. Please focus on the majors and not the minors because "ain't nobody" but God perfect and yes I said "ain't nobody"!!!!!.....30S&S....signing off....

SHB'S ( Single Holiday Blue's)

 To all my single sister's out there that suffer from SHB'S ( Single Holiday Blue's) every year, or maybe this is your first holiday alone in a while.  Just know that just because you are single yet another year, does not mean that you have to sit around the house in your most worn pajama's or favorite Ben & Jerry ice cream. Why not get dressed up and find a holiday party to crash along with other single friends. Or have your own holiday social at your house and tell your friends to invite other friends which can lead to meeting new friends. What about that married friend whose husband has single friends. Or that Co-worker who has a sibling that does not mind tagging alone. You will never know unless you venture out and that means putting the grandma pajama's away for another rainy day and tell Ben & Jerry that it's time for a real man to be your comfort!!!! HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!

30S&S...signing off..........

Treat yourself if no one else does ladies!!!!!!

30 Saved and Single

For those of ya'll that dont know me let me introduce myself. My name is Eugenia but all of my friends and family call me Gena. I am a 30 something year old single mom of a beautiful little girl whom i hold dear to my heart. I am sanctified, saved and filled with the holy ghost. last but not least, I AM SINGLE, and have been for over a decade. I have created this blog to show my struggles with getting back into the dating world after being single for so long and to see if anyone out there is going through what i am going through in this mess we call the dating game. If so please post and share your stories with me and my reader's please. Even if you are married or in a successful relationship i would like to hear some of your horror stories of the past. Along this crazy journey, I am praying that if I keep GOD first, he will surely bless me with my prince charming. Alright.....let the blogging began!!!!!

                             30S&S.....signing off......