And you feel the urge....

As I'm sitting here alone at home on another Saturday night. I cannot help to think how nice it would be to have a fine strong man here with me. Conversing with me, touching me, kissing on me and just making me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world. 

   However, if this daydream were true all of this beauty would be stripped away by  sex, no holding afterwards, no goodbye kisses and probably no calls the next day and probably again until the next time.

    Have I been there before, HECK YEAH!!! Would I like to be in that place again? NEVER AGAIN!!! So as good as it feels daydreaming about that man making you feel like a woman should, reality is, if he is not for you and I mean ordained by God. It's just what it is ladies and gent.... A DAYDREAM!! I know how lonely it gets and I know that we all have those certain desires, especially for my non virgin crew that know what they may have experience before ( let's keep it real). However as soon as I think about the feeling of being loved on, I think about the feeling that comes after the event is over and the daydream is no longer a dream but another disappointing reality.

  I mean it's nothing like being loved by someone who loves and cherishes you and will wait for you. Someone who will call you the next day and the following day ... Send you texts, take you on dates send flowers to your job and do all the things to make you feel like a woman should feel... Now that doesn't have to be a daydream it can be a reality, if we just wait and be patient.....so the next time you are on the couch alone on a Saturday night and you feel the urge, just Relax, Relate, Release, and take that time to EXHALE....because when he finally does come, it will be a whirlwind....30S&S signing off......

"Just Chillin"

Ladies,

One thing i can truly say I have learned over the years is that a man that wants you will desire you more when you do not chase him. I could be wrong but I'm almost positive that I'm right about this thing.

You ever notice if you start calling too much he doesn't quite answer all the time and let's face it we are in 2013, what man, woman or child for that matter don't carry their phone connected to their hip. So, if he is not answering, it's NOT because he doesn't see you calling.

Now I will admit there are those real moments when people actually do work or are really busy but doesn't that just mean they would send you a text to let you know or call you back when they are free... Hmmm... Yes, something to think about huh, lol.

Bottom line, if he is interested he will call and when he does. Give him the best orgasmic conversation you have ever given anyone. I know I'm cra cra, lol but seriously make the conversation worth his while. Then maybe next time he calls you if he does decide to wait an eternity later to buzz when he notices you are no longer blowing up his galaxy or iPhone. If he ask what you been up too because he cannot believe you have the audacity not to be calling so he could have the audacity not to answer. Just say "nothing just been chillin", lol.... See wont that blow his mind. He will think , "Wow, she just been chillin, doing nothing and still didn't want to call me" lol... It's time to turn the table around ladies!!

Long Time Coming

It's been a while but i'm back. Took some time off too...well let's just say i'm back! I am still 30 something, saved and SINGLE!!! I dated a guy for a couple of months, but just as soon as it started it was over. He was employed, no kids, never married, preacher's son and he had his own place. However, he was a 30 something year old that was afraid of real commitment. He wanted the relationship but without the time invested. He thought the idea of a great relationship was seeing the person once a month and talking on the phone every day for hours at a time. Maybe if we lived out of state that would have been idea. However, since we lived within 20 minutes of one another that was not my idea of a grownup relationship. Needless to say, i did not settle and it was back to the drawing board. I had ventured out to online dating and the first site i encoutered was Plenty Of Fish, better known as POF. This site is for any and everyone who is looking to meet someone. It does not matter the gender, age or race. Let's just say i met an atheist who was kind of hot, i met a country boy who thought one date = "you my girl now" and i talked to a few other guys whose conversations never went beyond the site. Soooooo thats what i have been up too these last few months, and dont worry i will keep you posted if i meet a new guy and go on a date anytime soon. For all you single ladies...we are in this dating game together.............It's been a long time coming but i am convinced that GOD has not forgotten about us single folk!!!!......30S&S.....signing off!!

SHB'S ( Single Holiday Blue's)

 To all my single sister's out there that suffer from SHB'S ( Single Holiday Blue's) every year, or maybe this is your first holiday alone in a while.  Just know that just because you are single yet another year, does not mean that you have to sit around the house in your most worn pajama's or favorite Ben & Jerry ice cream. Why not get dressed up and find a holiday party to crash along with other single friends. Or have your own holiday social at your house and tell your friends to invite other friends which can lead to meeting new friends. What about that married friend whose husband has single friends. Or that Co-worker who has a sibling that does not mind tagging alone. You will never know unless you venture out and that means putting the grandma pajama's away for another rainy day and tell Ben & Jerry that it's time for a real man to be your comfort!!!! HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!

30S&S...signing off..........

Treat yourself if no one else does ladies!!!!!!