Long Time Coming

It's been a while but i'm back. Took some time off too...well let's just say i'm back! I am still 30 something, saved and SINGLE!!! I dated a guy for a couple of months, but just as soon as it started it was over. He was employed, no kids, never married, preacher's son and he had his own place. However, he was a 30 something year old that was afraid of real commitment. He wanted the relationship but without the time invested. He thought the idea of a great relationship was seeing the person once a month and talking on the phone every day for hours at a time. Maybe if we lived out of state that would have been idea. However, since we lived within 20 minutes of one another that was not my idea of a grownup relationship. Needless to say, i did not settle and it was back to the drawing board. I had ventured out to online dating and the first site i encoutered was Plenty Of Fish, better known as POF. This site is for any and everyone who is looking to meet someone. It does not matter the gender, age or race. Let's just say i met an atheist who was kind of hot, i met a country boy who thought one date = "you my girl now" and i talked to a few other guys whose conversations never went beyond the site. Soooooo thats what i have been up too these last few months, and dont worry i will keep you posted if i meet a new guy and go on a date anytime soon. For all you single ladies...we are in this dating game together.............It's been a long time coming but i am convinced that GOD has not forgotten about us single folk!!!!......30S&S.....signing off!!

SHB'S ( Single Holiday Blue's)

 To all my single sister's out there that suffer from SHB'S ( Single Holiday Blue's) every year, or maybe this is your first holiday alone in a while.  Just know that just because you are single yet another year, does not mean that you have to sit around the house in your most worn pajama's or favorite Ben & Jerry ice cream. Why not get dressed up and find a holiday party to crash along with other single friends. Or have your own holiday social at your house and tell your friends to invite other friends which can lead to meeting new friends. What about that married friend whose husband has single friends. Or that Co-worker who has a sibling that does not mind tagging alone. You will never know unless you venture out and that means putting the grandma pajama's away for another rainy day and tell Ben & Jerry that it's time for a real man to be your comfort!!!! HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!

30S&S...signing off..........

Treat yourself if no one else does ladies!!!!!!