Then I met his best friend.....

I was listening to a song today by the artist "Uncle Sam" titled " I don't ever want to see you again". The song is about him receiving a letter from his best friend explaining that him and Uncle Sam's girlfriend have been seeing each other. The best friend goes on to say after being with her he can understand why Uncle Sam would be so in love with her.

Sooo, I know most would hear this song and say that this woman was a backstabbing whore and the best friend needs to get his A$$ whooped and they both should burn in hell! 

However, is it wrong to meet someone and date them and they seem to be cool and you guys are vibing and then later you meet a friend or relative of theirs and you feel like you guys connect more and may even be soul mates.  Are you supposed to stay with the other person simply because you met them first or do you follow your heart and take a chance on what may be destined for you?

If you are not married and In your heart you really feel more connected to the family member or friend, what do you do? In life we meet different people and some of them work out and some don't. So should you just miss out on a opportunity of a lifetime that you may not get with another person if, the connection is really strong. Would you take that chance and possibly destroy their relationship or would you just stay with the one you with and always think what could have, should have, would have been if you would have followed your heart ...30S&S...signing off...