Saturday, October 5, 2013

Just a little bit less.....

You ever had the feeling of a heavy heart. Not from death of a love one or bad news. I'm talking about the kind of heaviness you feel when a guy you thought you were vibing with is no longer answering your calls or returning your text. Or the one you cannot live without tells you he can actually live without you. You say to yourself .... "Not again"... "Why me"...you wonder what's so wrong with you that no one seems to want to be with you long enough to fall in love and put a ring on it. You start looking around and asking yourself  " what does she have that I don't" or feeling inadequate next to other women. I am here to tell you I have been there so i know how it feels and believe me it can be quite depressing if you let it overtake you. 

Instead of saying what's wrong with you, start listing the things that are "RIGHT" with you. If there are things you don't like that you can change then dog on it, make some changes!!! Be the best you there can be because cant no one represent you better... than you!! If you can't feel good about your self, don't expect someone else to feel good about you. 

If you are overweight, lose weight! If you are too needy, get some dang on hobbies! If you are spoiled, you better have A1 credit and a bangin job to match! Trust me the right one will come around eventually ... Just get prepared now in the meanwhile and as far as the hurt you feel now... Tomorrow it will hurt less and the next day a little less....and the next day a little more less ... and you get the point.... 30S&S signing off......


Time heals all wounds ....

1 comment:

  1. I agree, sometimes it isn't the womans fault and we shouldn't focus on what's "wrong with us". His loss!

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